Lila Oakes

Lila Oakes

Lila Oakes

Lila Oakes, age 89, of Adams, Wisconsin passed away on Friday, September 2, 2022 at Gunderson Lutheran Medical Center in La Crosse, Wisconsin.

Funeral services will be 12 Noon on Sunday, September 11, 2022 at the Immanuel Lutheran Church.  Rev. John Krebs will officiate.  Friends may call at the church on Sunday, September 11th, from 11:00 a.m. until the time of service.

Interment will be at Mt. Repose Cemetery at a later date.

Lila was born March 4, 1933 in Springville Township, Adams County, Wisconsin to Lee and Ethel (Fuller) Bork.  She graduated from Adams-Friendship High School in 1950.  After high school, Lila moved to Chicago and was employed by Butler Paper Company.  She married Edward Oakes on October 12, 1955 in Adams, Wisconsin.  They moved to Friendship in 1957.  Lila retired from M&I Bank after 31 years of employment.

Lila was a life-long member of Immanuel Lutheran Church, Moundview Hospital & Clinic Auxiliary since 1995, and the Moundview Golf Course.

Lila enjoyed golfing and bowled for many years in several area leagues,  enjoyed card playing and “Mexican Train”, and was known by friends as “Lucky Lila.”

Lila was preceded in death by her parents: Lee and Ethel Bork; husband, Edward; son, Roger; sister, Rita Robertson; brother, Howard Bork; sisters-in-law:  Phyllis Bork, Arlene Oakes, and Rose Oakes; brothers-in-law:  James Oakes and Sidney Oakes; nephew-in-law, Joe  Smith; and special neighbors:  Ed and Florence Koehler.

Survived by
Brother-in-law:  Thomas Robertson
Nieces:  Sue Smith, Peggy (Dan) West), Patty (Del) Renner
Godson/Nephew:  Burt (Holly) Robertson
Nephew:  Ray Bork (Sandy)
Special Friend:  Becky Schmidt
Further survived by other relatives and friends.

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Condolences

  1. Laura Fields says:

    Sorry for the loss of Lila. I never played cards with her, but saw her at the bank for many years. Always with a smile on her face and a kind word. RIP

  2. Julie and Bob Goodhue says:

    We are sorry to hear that Lila passed away. We extend our sympathy to her family. She was always so nice whenever we would see her. RIP Lila

  3. Russell Nelson says:

    I worked with Lila at the Bank. She was a great worker as well as a super great person.

  4. Kathy McCarthy and Pete Hickethier says:

    She was an asset to any group she belonged to….and always had a gentle smile for all. Our condolences to her family and many friends.

  5. Donna Christensen says:

    So sorry for the loss of Lilah. Just a wonderful person to call a Friend.

  6. Karen Heitman and Ron Jordi says:

    So saddened to hear of Lila’s passing. I worked with Lila at M&I Bank and she was an incredibly smart, funny and caring person. Will always have fond memories of her.

  7. Sally Dummitt says:

    So sorry to hear about Lila. Have many good memories. She will be missed. My sympathy to the family.

  8. Frederick F Toth says:

    All my prayers 🙏 just at a loss for words.

  9. Kyle Kluck & Krystyne Miller says:

    Remember her bowling and out at Moundview. She was a very nice lady. Will definately be missed.

  10. Sue Roeder says:

    So sorry for your loss she was a great lady she will be missed

  11. Marcia Corcoran says:

    Lila will be missed. I’m so sorry for the heartaches of her friends and family. She was beautiful, kind and funny and an awesome neighbor. Her flowers brightened my day and her bingo prowess was amazing! RIP Miss Lila!

  12. Julie Schnolis says:

    I’m so sorry for your loss, she was an amazing lady. Just chatted with her a few weeks ago in the grocery store. She had made a point to come ask me how things were going, loved our little chit chats. She will be missed.

  13. Mary Ritchart (seaman) says:

    She was a great classmate

  14. Don and Karen Rathke says:

    Lila was a wonderful person… Rest in peace. You are with your family now and many good friends. Deepest sympathy,

  15. Rick & Jocelyn Turner says:

    Rick and I are heartbroken to hear of Lila’s passing. Lila was an angel walking on earth, she is now an angel in heaven. We have so many fond memories of playing cribbage with “Lucky Lila.” RIP Leila, you will be sorely missed.

  16. Ray and Cheri Witz says:

    Ray and I were very saddened to hear of Lila’s passing. We’re sending our condolences, prayers and love to all who loved her. She will be missed by many, including us.

  17. Patricia Sorensen says:

    I was so sorry to hear about Lila she was such a sweetheart. We golfed for many years and she was so much fun. I will miss her at our Mailbox where we would chat while picking up our mail.
    She will be missed by all of us.
    My deepest sympathy to her family.

  18. Sue Anderson says:

    So sad to hear this. She will be missed my all who had the pleasure to know Lila. She was a ray of sunshine whenever I saw her in town. My sympathy to Lila’s family.

  19. Marge says:

    So sorry to hear about Lila’s passing. Lucky Lila will be missed by many – her laugh, friendliness, smile.

  20. Lori Ward says:

    Sorry to about Lila’s passing. She was a wonderful lady and will be missed by many.

  21. Jim and Nancie Cook says:

    Our deepest condolences to your family!

  22. Jeff Rhinehart @Penny Buchda says:

    Thoughts an prayers to all the family

  23. Pam & Matt Brunner says:

    It was a privilege to know Lila for so many years. She was insightful, kind, and a joy to be around-we will miss her greatly. We send our deepest sympathy to her family.

  24. Maureen Hauswald says:

    My heart is heavy. Lila and I were golf partners in ladies’ league back in the day. She taught me about golfing in league, and I taught her about Southern Comfort and Sour. We could talk about anything and everything. She was remarkable..the perfect combination of sugar and spice. I loved her laugh. Only Lila had the power to get me to go to the casino or dog track. She was loved by many including me. Condolences to all who knew and loved her.

  25. shirley Harris says:

    Sure going to miss Lila when we play Cribbage R.I.P. She was a great person with a great personality

  26. Kim Bezemek says:

    What a kind and incredibly strong lady. I will miss seeing her, she always made me smile. Hugs to you all!

  27. Chris Langer says:

    So sorry to hear this, Lila was a great lady. I will miss our chats and laughs.

  28. Frank and Veronica Leifer says:

    We met Lila at Friday night Bingo. What a wonderful and caring lady, We will Dearly miss our Lucky Lila.
    Can’t say enough how wonderful of a person she was.

  29. Rose Corton says:

    So sorry for the families loss.

  30. Fran & Bill Christofferson says:

    So sorry to hear of Lila’s passing. I worked with her many years ago at the Adams County Bank. I remember her always having a wonderful smile and just being a very cheerful person.

  31. Penny Maleski says:

    Lila was true and lovely friend. I loved her laugh and the way she cared for others. We recently had lunch and I told her I would love to grow up to be just like her. I’ll remember her fondly.

  32. Jane M Imboden says:

    Will miss her on our Wednesday Girls Night Out!!!! Alway could make us laugh and smile. And we called her LUCKY LILA, and she was. Started working with Lila at 18 years old at the Bank. This was before computers so everything was posted by hand. Always had the cupboard filled with food. Will always be remembered!!!!

  33. Judy Veronica BIERI says:

    Lila was such a special lady and will be missed by so many people, God Bless.

  34. Pat and Tom Sutter says:

    RIP Lila. You are one in a million. Condolences to the family.

  35. Peggy Sleeman says:

    I am saddened by the death of Lila.
    She was a wonderful, caring lady.
    RIP Lila. Condolences to Lila’s entire family.

  36. CONNIE KUHNKE says:

    Such a great lady!!! I will miss that smile and all your kindness, & encouragement! Until we meet again, RIP

  37. Russell Nelson says:

    I am sorry to hear of your passing. It was a joy to work with you at the bank.

  38. Sue Moran says:

    So sorry to hear of Lila’s passing. RIP Lila!

  39. Diana Shaske says:

    Sorry for your loss 🙏

  40. Peg Lecy says:

    So very sorry to hear this Lila was a very special lady. May God family and friends comfort you

  41. Tom McKinley says:

    We are sorry to hear that Lila has passed. She was a cherished friend to our family for a long time. Our condolences to the family.

  42. Sherry Sherd says:

    A amazing lady . She exuded grace humility and kindness that has become a rarity in this world. I am so sorry to her family . She was / is loved .

  43. Mary LaFever says:

    So very sorry for your loss! She was always so pleasant when she came into Cenex. Such a sweet woman!

  44. Nicole bunker says:

    Sorry she will be missed at bingo someone else will win now

  45. Michael T. Clark says:

    So sorry for your families loss……

  46. Rock says:

    So heart breaking , she was an amazing kind lady .. my heart & prayers to family & friends .. RIP Aunt Lila 💕

  47. Debra and scott says:

    Sorry for your loss and ours condolences to the family

  48. Marj Colby says:

    Lila was a special lady and will be sorely missed.

  49. Patti & Kaitlyn Warren says:

    My sincere condolences to the family during this difficult time.

  50. Evelyn Johnston says:

    Lila, was a very special lady. Always so friendly & fun to be with. May the Lord Bless her. She will be missed.

  51. Valerie Mecklenburg says:

    My Heart is broken. Wonderful woman. There are no words in me seeing this. Prayers & hugs to all. Forever in our hearts.

  52. Bob and Janis Cada says:

    We will definitely miss Lila’s smiles and personality. She was a very kind, helpful and thoughtful friend. Peace, love and comfort to her family.

  53. Jeff & Laurie DeVaney says:

    Our condolences to Lila’s family. She was a great lady and will be missed by many.

  54. Jodi Helgeson says:

    I’m sorry to hear this. She was such a good friend to many. I will miss her

  55. Jayne & Glenn says:

    Bingo and ship, captain and crew will not be the same with out “Lucky Lila”. R.I.P. to a very special lady with a smile that would brighten the room. Heaven has another angel that will truly missed here on earth.

  56. Jim and Mary Ann Pease. says:

    We were sorry to read of Lila passing. Spent many hours with Lila when we golfed together at Moundview. Always had a winning smile.

  57. Judy Alderman says:

    So very sorry for the families loss