Esther Helen Stevens

Esther Helen (Pedersen) Stevens

Esther Helen (Pedersen) Stevens

Esther Helen (Pedersen) Stevens left our Earth on this day, January 3, 2021 at the age of 90 years, six months and 11 days.

Born the middle child of five and a half-dozen children (her father’s humorous way of saying 11) to Hans and Hilda Pedersen of Arkdale, Wisconsin, on June 23, 1930, Esther grew to adulthood amongst a large, loving farm family in Adams County.  She spent her early years working and playing alongside her siblings, going to Adams County schools,  and attending services at the Trinity Lutheran Church of Arkdale,  Wisconsin, where she was both baptized and confirmed. Esther graduated from Adams-Friendship High School in 1948.  One evening when she was 19, Esther’s sister Virginia and her boyfriend Garland introduced her to Fred Byron Stevens at the Spot in the Woods, a local dance hall. The two were soon swaying together to The Blue Skirt Waltz, while Virginia and Garland slipped away into the night. At first forced to accept a ride home with Fred, Esther soon fell in love with the young Army Reservist from Castle Rock. They were married just months later on December 17, 1949 in the sanctuary of Trinity Lutheran Church with Virginia and Garland standing with them as the best man and maid of honor. All seven of Esther’s sisters participated in the ceremony.

The couple moved to Lake Benton, Minnesota a few months after the wedding only to return to Arkdale when Fred received orders to report for active duty during the Korean Conflict. Esther resettled into her parents’ home while Fred shipped out, first to Fort Lewis in Washington state. She was able to travel to visit him in Washington before he left for Korea.  While Fred was overseas, Esther spent time preparing for the birth of their first child, Fred Byron  Stevens, Jr., who was born in May, 1951. Esther wrote Fred letters, sharing photos and stories of little Freddy, and she prayed for her husband’s safe return. He did return to her, after suffering shrapnel wounds from enemy fire. Upon Fred’s return to the states, the family moved from Arkdale to Kenosha, Wisconsin. Esther was pregnant with their second child in 1952 when both were struck with polio. They sent Freddy to stay with Fred’s parents while the couple admitted themselves to the local hospital’s polio ward. Esther remembered being in that ward, where nurses closed the hallway doors of the rooms whenever someone passed away from the disease. They both recovered and returned home, and the following January, 1953 they welcomed the birth of Ronald David.  The couple also welcomed a daughter, Debra Jayne, in November of 1954 and enjoyed their little family.  Five years later in 1959 Esther gave birth to Susan Kaye followed by Jeffrey Wayne in 1960. Their family now complete, Esther and Fred worked to rear the five siblings with love, security, a sense of integrity and, most importantly, a sense of humor.

Esther worked tirelessly to make their house a home: cleaning, baking, sewing, teaching, and sometimes acting as referee. When Jeff started kindergarten Esther returned to school to learn keypunching at Kenosha Technical Institute. After she finished her classes, she joined Cooper’s, now Jockey International, in the data processing department, entering information into the system via punched cards that helped process orders from all over the world on computers the size of large rooms. She continued to work at Jockey for more than 20 years, retiring after the company phased out the key-punching due to technological advances.  Esther and Fred purchased land on her father’s farm during the 1980s, and they built their retirement home in Arkdale where they returned after Fred finally retired in 1989. Esther had always wanted to return home, and they now lived next-door to Virginia. Esther was pleased to rejoin the Trinity Lutheran Church and became active in the Strongs Prairie Community Club, to which several of her sisters also belonged. She and Fred were also active members of the local VFW post and the Military Order of the Purple Heart.

During their retirement, they enjoyed many visits from their children. They entertained their grandchildren with week-long stays at Grandpa and Grandma’s house or with trips to their other favorite place, Beaver Lake, near Hayward, Wisconsin. Esther enjoyed baking and playing cards and board games with her family as well as shopping with her sisters. She and Fred also enjoyed sharing the daily crossword puzzles in the newspaper.
Esther suffered a fall at home in 2010, and due to her injuries and Fred’s advancing Alzheimer’s disease they moved back to Kenosha to be nearer to their children and grandchildren. Since that time, their children have provided ongoing support and care as the couple moved from a senior living apartment to assisted living facilities. Fred passed away in 2017. The couple spent 67 happily married years together.  Those welcoming her into heaven this day include her parents and parents-in-law, husband, Fred Byron
Stevens, Sr., siblings Norman, Roy, Caroline (Henricksen), Viola (York), Virginia (Chaffee), and Verna (Williams), brothers and sisters-in-law, Warren Stevens, II, Thomas Stevens, Robert Stevens, Robert Hedman, Sr., Kenneth Henricksen, Eleanor Pedersen, Beryl Pedersen, Clarence York, Garland Chaffee, Frank Williams, Helmer Lecy, Ed Koehler and Clinton (Bud) McKinley, and nephews Dennis Henricksen, Richard Pedersen, Donnie York, Randy Williams, Loren Lecy, and Ronald Williams.

Esther is survived by her sisters Gladys (McKinley), Myrtle (Lecy), Florence (Koehler) and brother, Alden, sisters-in-law Judith Pedersen, Dorothy (Stevens) Hedman, Patricia (Stevens) Balk, brother-in-law Nicholas Balk and sisters-in-law Barbara Stevens and Patricia (Gibson) Stevens. She is also survived by her children Fred Byron Stevens Jr., and his wife Patricia Chastain, Ronald David Stevens and his wife Betty, Debra Jayne Stevens and her husband Robert Wheeler, Susan Kaye Dempsey and her husband Jefferson and Jeffrey Wayne Stevens and his wife Donna Gaddy. Her grandchildren are Joseph (Kim) Bonn, Michael (Katie) Bonn, Michelle Bonn, Samantha (Zach) Muller, Stacy Dempsey, Amanda (Vince) Gibbons, Briana (Alejandro) Fuentes, Abigail (William) Malatesta, Ethan (Desiree) Stevens, Bryon (Sarah) Gaddy and John (Heather) Gaddy. Her great-grandchildren are Abraham, Arthur, Avery, Byron, Caroline, Cecelia, Dante, Esterlyn, Gino, Grayson, Haley, Hazel, Isabella, Ivy, Jenna, Julian, Landon, Olive, Stella and Trista. Additional family members include many nieces, nephews, and in-laws of several generations.

The immediate family will share a brief, private farewell due to pandemic circumstances, but they will share a special service video through the funeral home online. A special celebration of life will be planned at a later date in Arkdale, WI when we can safely gather together. The family requests that any memorials be sent to the Arkdale Trinity Lutheran Church, 1650 Church St., Arkdale, WI 54613 or Library Terrace 7905 – 36th Avenue, Kenosha, WI 53142.

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  1. Patricia M Schiefer says:

    Esther we will miss you .you and Genny are up in heaven. Visiting each other at last. I,m glad you are no longer in pain. God always takes are pain away. I wish too thank you for all your friendship. So sorry you passed away. All your family and friends will miss you always.

  2. Vickie Pedersen says:

    My prayers for comfort and strength walking forward each day. Aunt Esther was one special lady with lots of love she gave many especially her dear family. I send you hugs that I wish I could give each of you in person. Love you all. Sincerely Vickie Pedersen

  3. Cindy Renner says:

    Tim and I extend our condolences to Esther’s family and friends. Much love to all.

  4. Pam & Matt Brunner says:

    We share your sorrow at the passing of our beautiful, kind Aunt Esther. Her life story is a wonderful testament to the power of love and family. Your are in our thoughts and prayers.

  5. Pat Holm Jodarski says:

    PPrayers and sympathy to the wonderful family and friends of Ester may God be with you. My heart is also sad reading the names of so many who I have known and who were special friends of my family who are also gone. RIP

  6. Bob and Janis Cada says:

    Wishing all of you strength and peace during this difficult time. Our prayers are with you 💕

  7. Larry & Evelyn Johnston says:

    As our parents, go before us, to join their parents and siblings. I think of how happy Mom & Dad were, when Aunt Esther & Uncle Fred moved back to Arkdale. Joining the VFW & the auxiliary.. The times, that they spent together, enjoying each another. The memories, like singing Christmas Carols, sharing wine & cookies. The sisters calling & talking at least once a day. Aunt Esther, was one special aunt. In God’s Blessings & His Love.

  8. Nancy Wical says:

    What a wonderful obituary written about a very great and caring lady. I am so fortunate to have known Esther. So many happy times to remember. May you and Fred be together in Heaven . You will be greatly missed by so many to whom knew you. Rest in peace my friend Esther❤

  9. Susan Moran says:

    So sorry for your family’s loss. RIP Esther.

  10. Crystal (Williams) & Larry Nawrot says:

    This is beautiful. We will miss Aunt Esther, but she is now with the live of her life again – reunited. Keep your memories and stories alive, continue to share. Thoughts and prayers are with you all.

  11. Peggy Johnston says:

    So sad to hear of Aunt Esthers passing. The pain is gone and now she is with Uncle Fred and so many siblings. She will always hold a place in my heart for her beauty, she was one of the most wonderful people I was fortunate to know and be related to. She was never judgemental and always had so much love in her heart. Uncle Fred and Aunt Esther have the most wonderful family I believe there ever was. Their Siblings stepped up loyally when necessary, and helped the large round of Pedersen’s going.
    I was blessed to be part of their family. The Pedersen name will never be gone.

  12. Patricia Gibson-Stevens says:

    A beautiful obituary! I feel truly blessed to have been part of Esther’s family .My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

  13. Charlene Jensen says:

    Sympathy to Esther’s extended family.

  14. Susan stotler says:

    What a fitting obituary for a lovely lady that cherished her family. So sorry for your loss, Esther was an amazing lady and always looked on the bright side. She will be sadly missed by so many. And I say many as she loved everyone in her own special way. She will be dancing with Fred again and playing cards. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏. Suzie and Rudy

  15. Michelle Serpe says:

    What a beautiful story ❤ of a wonderful life of your very beautiful mom!

  16. Douglas Thorn says:

    Beautifully written obituary. I just want to thank all of the Stevens’ family for so many wonderful memories and for allowing me to be a part of numerous family gatherings. All cherished memories. God bless you and I wish you all the very best.

  17. Judy Alderman says:

    So very sorry for your family’s loss

  18. Bob and Julie Goodhue says:

    Our sympathy to Esther’s family at this sad time; thinking of you all.

  19. Melissa Jeranek says:

    My heart goes out to all of my Aunt Esther’s family. Her illness and passing have been made more difficult because of the pandemic and not being able to have proper visitation. You all handled it with grace, joy, and dignity. Thank you for including each of us on that journey through your blogs, posts, and this short memorial. Esther had a profound impact on my own mom’s life especially in the early years of being married to my mom’s brother and starting their family. I will always remember her kindness and beautiful smile. You will all continue to be in my prayers.

  20. Peg Lecy says:

    Hold each other close for comfort and share those memories. We have so many. Aunt Esther was a angel. I’m so sorry on your loss
    My thoughts prayers and love are with all of you

  21. Jodi Lecy Helgeson and Jim Grabarski says:

    I’m so glad that we had the last family reunion with her. She was determined to attend and we enjoyed her being with us all. My heart goes out to all of you. Although it was her time to go with God, it doesn’t make it easier.

  22. Lisa Pulte says:

    I appreciate the timeline and lineage that shows Aunt Ester’s place in our world. The place she holds in my heart is etched from my memories of her. This I do not need to have these written down but in writing Aunt Ester’s genealogy you have respected those that came before her and those of us who come after. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

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